There really should be a ritual or ceremonial aspect around this. I'm usually pretty reserved until I find out someone has had a vasectomy, then tend to really overshare. I'll limit myself here, but will add what I asked the first time someone mentioned the Xanax they took for it, which was, "What? That was never presented as an option to me." And I could have used it.
I really enjoyed reading about this from a male perspective - thank you!
There really should be a ritual or ceremonial aspect around this. I'm usually pretty reserved until I find out someone has had a vasectomy, then tend to really overshare. I'll limit myself here, but will add what I asked the first time someone mentioned the Xanax they took for it, which was, "What? That was never presented as an option to me." And I could have used it.